Diana. 20. Theatre Junkie.Broke-ass college student. I don't really know what I'm even doing. I thrift a lot and try to post pictures of what I find as much as possible.
Anonymous said: Ok why is Christian Grey an abuser. I'm genuinely interested in knowing why, I'm not mocking you. Like what are you're viewpoints about him in the book thanx
Obsessing over Ana even though he barely knows her.
Stalking her, tracking her cell phone, and literally buying the company that she works for simply because she works for because he is that obsessed with keeping tabs on her.
Ignoring her when she uses her safeword. I don’t know if you are a member of the BDSM community but ignoring someone when they use a safeword is a huge no-no. It takes everything that makes BDSM a safe an intimate experience and turns it into a rape scenario in no time flat.
I would go on but I’m tired. I hope I answered your question. I really wasn’t trying to sound pretentious when I made my initial post. I’m just really defensive of the BDSM community and feel like we are being inaccurately represented via the 50 Shades books. A good dominant wouldn’t obsess over a submissive like that. A good dominant wouldn’t make you sign a contract about a lifestyle you barely know about. There’s so much wrong with Christian Grey as a character and I just really worry about how this might affect the younger people just starting to learn about their sexual preferences.
me in november: ugh christmas decorations shouldn't be up this early the holiday isn't for another two months come the fuck on
me in september: SPOOKY SCARY SKELETONS